Monday, August 11, 2008

Success is in the Doing--The Power of Choice

“Never give up, never surrender!” ---Commander Peter Taggart (lead character in “Galaxy Quest”)

Whenever I’m feeling down, I love to put up my feet and sink my mind into an old favorite movie. The reason is obvious. A good story, whether silly or profound, lifts us out of our ordinary life and into a new perspective. And within each story is a kernel of truth that some reader (or viewer) takes to heart. Perhaps that is the essential ingredient we strive to discover in each of our own stories. That kernel of truth. This is what sets each story apart. For me, this new week, I’m quoting one of my favorite fictional heroes. And I want to urge each of us to Never Give Up, NEVER Surrender!

“Part of the issue of achievement is to be able to set realistic goals, but that's one of the hardest things to do because you don't always know exactly where you're going, and you shouldn't.” ~~ George Lucas

Ah yes, the challenge of balancing the need for realistic goals and the reality that because each story is an independent creation there are quirks and inevitable diversions. Not to mention the unavoidable distractions that daily living often presents. Like Lennon said, “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.”

We writers also face another challenge in our careers:
“You have to put in many, many, many tiny efforts that nobody sees or appreciates before you achieve anything worthwhile.”
--Brian Tracy

Time. Yikes. So many little revisions, hours spent on research or even just staring into space while searching for the exact right word. How many here have sweated over picking the Perfect Name for a character? *smile*

Obviously, these precious moments invested are worthwhile. We love being writers, which is why we write. Yet too often we spend just as much time chiding ourselves over the hours wasted or bemoaning the lack of substantial feedback. We all have end goals in sight. A beginning writer hopes to get a positive response from a query. A published writer yearns for a stellar review. A multi-published author strives to reach a particular sales level. And it’s almost certain that every writer will judge herself at each stage, certain that she SHOULD be doing better.

"Success means doing the best we can with what we have. Success is the doing, not the getting; in the trying, not the triumph. Success is a personal standard, reaching for the highest that is in us, becoming all that we can be." ---Zig Ziglar

Let us remember, and remind each other as often as we can, that while we should damn well strive to reach whatever far-reaching goal we set our hearts on, We Are Successful. Reaching for the highest, becoming all we can be… That is the best goal we can hope for.

Would we sneer at our best friend for her efforts, or judge her for not reaching her goals quickly enough? Of course not! We’d point out that the strongest trees grow slowly, sinking roots deep into the ground. A spindly sapling that shoots up too quickly might snap in a heavy wind.

“Trust, have faith, and keep doing the work,” we’d murmur with an encouraging smile. Part of the process of staying motivated is keeping your spirits high! As the marathon runners stumble past, the onlookers cheer and shout their support. Imagine if they offered up the kind of words we’ve been known to toss at ourselves when no one is listening. We’ve all done it. My personal favorite is to shout, “I’m a hack! My writing sucks!” while pacing around the room. *rolls eyes* Not very best-friendish, eh?

“Experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes." - Oscar Wilde

The truth is, everyone must strive to reach heights that are unfamiliar. We need to keep in mind that even those blessed writers who do get published immediately have issues or personal struggles of their own. We all share the need to better ourselves, to reach our personal heights, to become the Best We Can Be.

Part of what makes the difference with writing is perspective. The more we put the pressure on, the more it seems like WORK (the dreaded four letter word) and less like PLAY. Yet this is what we want more than anything, right? We’re not digging ditches or scrubbing toilets. This is our life’s dream, our greatest joy. Sometimes I find that my whole attitude shifts when I make a few changes in perspective. Rather than saying “I HAVE to finish this book” or “I have to meet this deadline,” how about “I GET to finish my book!” “I get to meet a deadline!” How lucky am I? *grin*

“The more I want to get something done, the less I call it work." --Richard Bach.

And when you get right down to it, there’s nothing you HAVE to do. Really. Everything is a choice. Even breathing. Sure, the alternative is I’d suffocate *cough* but again, it’s what I choose to do. Sometimes we Choose to take on obligations. It’s easy then to believe we HAVE TO do this or that. But the simple truth is, we Choose. Each and every time. To be responsible. To be kind. To be mature (sometimes *grin*). To write our books.

So let’s make that choice and recognize the beauty and absolute pleasure it is to Have that choice. YAY!! We Are WRITERS!!

My choice this week is to…

Continue on with WIP—more pages, more scenes!
Weekly essay.
Begin submission process with last book.

How about you?

Have a fabulous week, everyone!! Go-go-GO!!

--Chiron

12 comments:

Celia Yeary said...

CHOICES, CHOICES, CHOICES! I hate days when I seem to go in circles with my writing, blogging, communicating, etc. but in the end, yes, it my choice. To continue to write and endure--yes, as Col. William Travis said at the Battle of the Alamo, "I shall never surrender nor retreat." And he drew a line in the sand--step over and continue, or run away. (He didn't really draw the line--I think John Wayne did that in 1961 in his movie The Alamo. but it's a good story.) Great blog, Chiron!

Elaine Cantrell said...

Great blog. I needed it today too.

Thanks,
Elaine Cantrell
www.elainecantrell.com

Sandy said...

Chiron,

I have called myself a hack many times, and I still do. If you only have to revise small parts, you're lucky.

You're right it's my choice to write or not. I get to finish my book sounds so much better than I have to finish this book. I certainly needed that attitude change.

Thanks,
Sandy

Chiron said...

Celia!

I love it! Never surrender, never retreat...

Yup... It's the realization that we have a choice that liberates us. Write ON!!

Thanks so much for your comments...

Smiles,
Chiron

Chiron said...

Elaine,

Thanks so much!

Smiles to you,
Chiron

Chiron said...

Sandy,

The life of a writer is filled with ups and downs, eh?

We Are so lucky to be writers. To pen a tale is magic in the best sense of the word...

Here's to embracing the choice!

Smiles,
Chiron

Anonymous said...

I'm really happy when I choose to read your blog. :-)
We are looking forward to enjoying your company Sunday. We'll call soon.love, Cathy

Ryshia Kennie said...

Hi Chiron

Thanks again for another great read. Your blog always gives me that extra bit of motivation.

Ryshia

Chiron said...

Thanks, Cathy!

I appreciate your support...

Hugs,
Chiron

Chiron said...

Thanks so much, Ryshia!!

We can all use a bit of a boost...

*thumbs up*

Have a lovely writing week!

Best,
Chiron

Tiffany James said...

Chiron,

Thank you for the encouragement! I love the quotes with which you pepper your posts. I always cut and paste them into my "inspiration and motivation" file.

Tiffany

Chiron said...

Tiffany,

You're so welcome! Those are fun quotes, aren't they? *grin*

Keep writing!!

Smiles,
Chiron